13 Intimate Things Every Couple Should Do At Least Once In a Lifetime

No flame burns forever, and the same goes for love. The busyness of modern life has deprived many couples of time together, let alone moments for extra intimacy. Passion and sexual tension need to be reignited regularly to keep love strong and growing. From little things to holidays, these lovey dovey intimate things will help you rekindle your dying relationship for sure!

1. Take a shower together

Shower time is no doubt ‘Me’ time, by entering their ‘me’ time you will be able to get closer to them. Taking a shower with your partner proves how much comfortable you are with them. Also, it will save time & water!

2. Cook a meal together

Enjoy the process of planning a meal and cooking it together. It takes cooperation and communication. Both of you share the labor and also the fruits of it. Share your family stories while you cook. If you want to spice things up a bit, you could try cooking naked—by wearing just aprons with nothing else underneath.

3. Shop for lingerie together

Who doesn’t love presents? Surprise your partner with a new pair of undies today. You don’t even have to go to an actual store. Shop online! You’ll be surprised by the huge range of choices. But before that, ask your partner what he or she likes—the colors, the designs, the brands, etc.—so you won’t have too difficult a time deciding what to purchase. You could also try something extra kinky like lacy tops, thongs or certain sexy accessories.

4. Go on a road trip

Traveling, no doubt, can leave one with rich experiences but this is amplified to a great deal when you ditch the comfort of a five star and live out of your bag not knowing what to expect the next day. The hardship, test of endurance and can unusual circumstances that push you out of your comfort zone can bring out the best and worst in both of you.

5. A game of footsie

You might have seen it in countless movies and TV shows. It is one of those cute moments when the heroine and the hero let their feet meet and cook up some excitement under the dining table. So, now it is your turn to try this game out. You can play it either when you two are alone or sitting at the dinner table with the entire family.

6. Help each other shave

This requires a great amount of trust, but it can help to build trust between two people, too. Let your partner teach you if you don’t already know. Not to mention it works like crackers for your relationship. Ladies, you can help your man with his daily morning routine while he can occasionally take care of those beautiful legs for you. Well ladies, if you are not into shaving, then he can give you a foot massage. Be patient with each other.

7. Write erotic texts for each other

Move over, sexting! Erotic writing could be the next big thing for couples in love. Seeing how the Fifty Shades Of Grey series has become such a bestseller worldwide, it comes to us as no surprise how personal erotic writings could be a good way of communicating to your partner in a subtle but still sexy manner. Reveal to each other your secret fantasies and yearnings. This could work really well for couples who are in a long distance relationship. Use secret pet names for each other. Be unreserved with your imagination.

8. Involve food in foreplay

The trick is to try something new while keeping it clean and manageable. Use fruits, such as strawberry, banana, mango, pomegranate, peach, etc., and syrups such as chocolate fudge, maple syrup and honey. And of course, whipped cream. Just remember to lay down some towels beforehand so that the sheets don’t get dirty.

9. Watch porn together

Don’t be shy about it! Use porn to teach each other what you’d like to have done to you, and what you’ll like to do to your partner. It’s a chance to get to know more about each other’s secret fantasies and previously unknown preferences or fetishes. Also, you don’t need to go to the book store for a copy of the Kama Sutra now.

10. Have a beach getaway together 

The beach, the sun, the sand, and the clear waters. Help each other with the sunblock lotion. Have a nice little picnic under the trees. Get a beautiful tan together. Go frolic in the blue sea when it gets too hot. Roll around in the powdery white sand. You can rekindle a lot of love by spending alone time in a natural setting, enjoying each other’s company.

11. Give each other a massage

Massage helps to relax the body by relieving tension in the muscles. It is best to do this for your partner after he or she has had a hard day at work. Giving a massage is a loving act that shows that you are understanding and giving towards your partner.

12. Go camping together

Camping can provide a really good way to increase intimacy for couples who both love nature. It is a sweet escape for those who are tired of the city life and all its hustle and bustle. Being closer to nature allows the rejuvenation of the mind. Think of the cool, fresh air, the silence and calmness, and the endless amount of space that nature offers.

13. Blindfold 

It doesn’t have to be complicated. For starters, a blindfold and whatever works to bind the hands, such as a men’s tie or women’s leggings, will suffice. For the more “advanced” or more adventurous couples, you can buy real handcuffs and other locks or straps from adult toy stores. In any case, safety first!